Because I have never been on one hahah and I really like this guy and I don't wanna screw up...Any tips for a first date?
Okay, what you want to do before your first date is have a talk with youself. Tell yourself how wonderful and great you are and how any guy would be lucky to go out with you. If you have self confidence, this will take you far. Just be yourself and make confersation. If you are seeing a movie then going out to dinner, this will be great because it will mean you will have something to talk about. Just don't be someone who you aren't! If you are yourself that is all that matters.Any tips for a first date?
Fresh breath - Hahahahah - Hmmmmmmmm personally on any date I have just been really open to any conversation, I choose to respond in what ever way I feel at the time as long as it doesnt infringe on the values I have set for myself - be an easy person to talk to. See if the guy actually listens to what you have to say and your responses.
Just relax and be yourself.. I know that everyone panics before first dates, but afterwards you'll feel silly for getting so worked up about it! Dates are about having fun, so do that ^__^
Friday, November 25, 2011
I have a date, anyone have any tips?
okay, so this is my first date since my divorce... i met him online. we're both single parents in our 30s... we're doing the cliche dinner %26amp; a movie... i don't know what to wear, what movie to pick, what to talk about what NOT to talk about, how to make sure i stay safe if he ends up being a psycho! whether or not to kiss if it goes good...
i am so out of touch with the dating thing...
help!!
please??I have a date, anyone have any tips?
Just wear something nice and casual. And most importantly just be yourself and don't forget he will be nervous as well.
Have fun = )I have a date, anyone have any tips?
first of all dinner and a movie - the most dumbest date i could ever imagine. u meet him for the first time - why do u go to a movie? extremely dumb. u must go to dinner and then for bowling or dancing or drinks or walk (if weather permits). but movie? what re u, 12?
and about talking topics - health issues, politics and religion is out of question. u can do about anything else. also talking about how superior and great your kids re is really stupid and boring. so do not talk about kids either. what to wear? well, depends what restaurant u re going to - if it is a cheap diner wear jeans. also for me if a man ever took me to a cheap diner that would be the last time i saw him. otherwise wear a dress. simple one, not evening gown. men adore dresses.
about him being psycho - well, when i was single i used to meet guys on line and then meet for real - never ever even once i met even normal one. all were ugly and weird and yewww. so if i were u i wouldn't expect much. maybe u will be pleasantly surprised. good luck thou. and do not kiss him - licking is not permitted after a first date. u may hold his hand as a good bye.
just read your additional detail - well, messed up phone - bad sign. he doesn't have money for a normal phone or smth? i have never ever had my phone messed up. neither my kids nor my husband. the only one who had messed up phone was a poor student i met online when i was single and dating- he didn't have money to buy time. this is when he can not call. so i would take your credit card with u if i were u and i hope u will not buying dinner for him as well in a very expensive restaurant. u can call him, there is nothing qwrong with that. but to me, as a woman with high standards - i wouldn't call him and make appointment for a date with someone else. phone doesn't work - what he is, 12? and his mommy forgot to buy him time?
i would suggest you just act like your natural self and let the day juss flow. try to be unpredictable, for example if shows signs she wants to be kissed..lean close to her as if yu want to kiss her...then pretend to remove something from her ear...yu can say yu had seen a little spec of something then continue with the conversation. More women are impressed with men who act like themselves
i am so out of touch with the dating thing...
help!!
please??I have a date, anyone have any tips?
Just wear something nice and casual. And most importantly just be yourself and don't forget he will be nervous as well.
Have fun = )I have a date, anyone have any tips?
first of all dinner and a movie - the most dumbest date i could ever imagine. u meet him for the first time - why do u go to a movie? extremely dumb. u must go to dinner and then for bowling or dancing or drinks or walk (if weather permits). but movie? what re u, 12?
and about talking topics - health issues, politics and religion is out of question. u can do about anything else. also talking about how superior and great your kids re is really stupid and boring. so do not talk about kids either. what to wear? well, depends what restaurant u re going to - if it is a cheap diner wear jeans. also for me if a man ever took me to a cheap diner that would be the last time i saw him. otherwise wear a dress. simple one, not evening gown. men adore dresses.
about him being psycho - well, when i was single i used to meet guys on line and then meet for real - never ever even once i met even normal one. all were ugly and weird and yewww. so if i were u i wouldn't expect much. maybe u will be pleasantly surprised. good luck thou. and do not kiss him - licking is not permitted after a first date. u may hold his hand as a good bye.
just read your additional detail - well, messed up phone - bad sign. he doesn't have money for a normal phone or smth? i have never ever had my phone messed up. neither my kids nor my husband. the only one who had messed up phone was a poor student i met online when i was single and dating- he didn't have money to buy time. this is when he can not call. so i would take your credit card with u if i were u and i hope u will not buying dinner for him as well in a very expensive restaurant. u can call him, there is nothing qwrong with that. but to me, as a woman with high standards - i wouldn't call him and make appointment for a date with someone else. phone doesn't work - what he is, 12? and his mommy forgot to buy him time?
i would suggest you just act like your natural self and let the day juss flow. try to be unpredictable, for example if shows signs she wants to be kissed..lean close to her as if yu want to kiss her...then pretend to remove something from her ear...yu can say yu had seen a little spec of something then continue with the conversation. More women are impressed with men who act like themselves
I'm going on my first date with my recent girlfriend....i need tips.?
like the farthest i've went with a girl...was like cuddling. and i don't know **** else about like dropping hints for kissing or anything. I'm 15, so can i get some tips? like what hints do girls drop? and how do i drop hints?I'm going on my first date with my recent girlfriend....i need tips.?
i think i can help you. since im a girl, i could give you some tips on how GIRLS want to see their guy on their date.
first of all having a shower and putting on some deo wouldnt hurt.
if I was going out with MY boyfriend i would expect him to be clean, fresh breath, looks like he wants to be there, and enjoys where we are. i think it is not just what the girl wants. girls know when guys look bored. usually girls get embarassed because it looks like their not interested. i think you should talk to her and suggest things like seeing a movie you both like, or something else the two of you would like to do to spend time together, even if it is a date.
for hints: girls (well i'll give myself as an ex.) usually WANT to kiss guys their really into. i usually get really close and rest my head on my bf's shoulder and (this is optional) and put my hand on his leg ';resting'; it. this is a HUGE hint, because that means your looking for something more. if a girl feels really flirty, she would run her finger soflty around. not getting anywhere like THAT, but just hinting that ';this is where i wanna go, do you?';
when i first kissed my bf it was at the movies. now, we were both a little...interested at that point. i usually steal something from him playfully, or come up close to him and say ';so, having fun yet?'; or ';what do you wanna do?';
what i would want a guy to do to me in your case would be first putting his arm around me ( a classic :) ) then just whispering in my ear. now i wouldnt force or secretly have an evil masterminded plan to kiss her. sometimes you gotta let it happen. when the moment is right, both of you will know its time. sometimes it may not happen the first date, some girls really have to gain the trust of a guy before they kiss them.
i suggest you start with a small kiss at first. dont just jump up on her and give her a really wet french. eww, to a girl that is major bad! well, to most of the girls i know anyways.
just take it slow. hope this helps :)I'm going on my first date with my recent girlfriend....i need tips.?
just when it is the perfect time... Like a romantic scene in a movie or after walking her home just drop in for the kiss... take her by surpriseliver cleansing
i think i can help you. since im a girl, i could give you some tips on how GIRLS want to see their guy on their date.
first of all having a shower and putting on some deo wouldnt hurt.
if I was going out with MY boyfriend i would expect him to be clean, fresh breath, looks like he wants to be there, and enjoys where we are. i think it is not just what the girl wants. girls know when guys look bored. usually girls get embarassed because it looks like their not interested. i think you should talk to her and suggest things like seeing a movie you both like, or something else the two of you would like to do to spend time together, even if it is a date.
for hints: girls (well i'll give myself as an ex.) usually WANT to kiss guys their really into. i usually get really close and rest my head on my bf's shoulder and (this is optional) and put my hand on his leg ';resting'; it. this is a HUGE hint, because that means your looking for something more. if a girl feels really flirty, she would run her finger soflty around. not getting anywhere like THAT, but just hinting that ';this is where i wanna go, do you?';
when i first kissed my bf it was at the movies. now, we were both a little...interested at that point. i usually steal something from him playfully, or come up close to him and say ';so, having fun yet?'; or ';what do you wanna do?';
what i would want a guy to do to me in your case would be first putting his arm around me ( a classic :) ) then just whispering in my ear. now i wouldnt force or secretly have an evil masterminded plan to kiss her. sometimes you gotta let it happen. when the moment is right, both of you will know its time. sometimes it may not happen the first date, some girls really have to gain the trust of a guy before they kiss them.
i suggest you start with a small kiss at first. dont just jump up on her and give her a really wet french. eww, to a girl that is major bad! well, to most of the girls i know anyways.
just take it slow. hope this helps :)I'm going on my first date with my recent girlfriend....i need tips.?
just when it is the perfect time... Like a romantic scene in a movie or after walking her home just drop in for the kiss... take her by surprise
Do you date single parents? Any tips and suggestions?
I am currently involving with a single dad of a 5 year old girl. Lots dramas, mostly from his ex none stop monetary requests.
My boyfriend wants to give up joint custody, and just pay child support. But I told him he should wait till his daughter is old enough to make up her own mind. He said he couldn't wait that long, because his ex is sending him to early grave.
Well, I have seen the way his ex talk to him, it is not pretty. I know I couldn't deal with it. I try to tell him it is not his daughter's fault. He said he would never run away from his responsibility. If he has to pay more money, he would. He just doesn't want to have to deal with the ex.
Is it always like this when dating a single parent? How do I survive it?Do you date single parents? Any tips and suggestions?
Well I'm dating a guy that has two daughters, 3 and 14, and there are no problems between me, him and his ex wife. I told him when we first started seeing each other that even though I care about him, what goes on between him and his ex has nothing to do with me. I don't tolerate drama so whenever I date a man with kids I make sure they know to keep their ex out of our relationship. Kids are one thing (of course they are his top priority) but exs are a whole different story.
You should tell your boyfriend that he doesn't have to give up his rights. There are ways to get around having to even deal with a difficult ex....go to court and have them arrange the pick ups for him to get his daughter without even having to see her. And as far as money....if they have joint custody why is she calling him about money. If he is taking care of his responsibilities then there isn't much she can do. She can beg all she wants. It's not worth losing his daughter over. Do you date single parents? Any tips and suggestions?
yes it is like that i think its because there is so much history there.
he has to learn to only talk about his daughter and nothing else if she texts messages to him and its not about his daughter then to ignore it and only reply to her when it about the child. she wont like it and get a bit angry but that's ok if he sticks to these rule things will get so much better don't let him get caught up with she said this she going to do that just ignore all of it
good luck
Yes. Always make careful decisions when involved with a single
parent. Let them know what they can expect from you. Don't
rush into it so fast. And never mistreat the child. You should
always know that things happen. So do not be so quick to judge.
For the most part, it can work out fine. If the two of you have
a mutual respect for one another. Good luck.............
Yes you always have to deal with the crazy exes. But there's no way I could date a man that thinks his only responsibility is to take care of the child financially. I don't want to deal with my ex, but I'm not going to give up my child.
Been there, done that, not worth the baggage. Let single parents date each other.
my answer....date only people who have no minor children living at home
My boyfriend wants to give up joint custody, and just pay child support. But I told him he should wait till his daughter is old enough to make up her own mind. He said he couldn't wait that long, because his ex is sending him to early grave.
Well, I have seen the way his ex talk to him, it is not pretty. I know I couldn't deal with it. I try to tell him it is not his daughter's fault. He said he would never run away from his responsibility. If he has to pay more money, he would. He just doesn't want to have to deal with the ex.
Is it always like this when dating a single parent? How do I survive it?Do you date single parents? Any tips and suggestions?
Well I'm dating a guy that has two daughters, 3 and 14, and there are no problems between me, him and his ex wife. I told him when we first started seeing each other that even though I care about him, what goes on between him and his ex has nothing to do with me. I don't tolerate drama so whenever I date a man with kids I make sure they know to keep their ex out of our relationship. Kids are one thing (of course they are his top priority) but exs are a whole different story.
You should tell your boyfriend that he doesn't have to give up his rights. There are ways to get around having to even deal with a difficult ex....go to court and have them arrange the pick ups for him to get his daughter without even having to see her. And as far as money....if they have joint custody why is she calling him about money. If he is taking care of his responsibilities then there isn't much she can do. She can beg all she wants. It's not worth losing his daughter over. Do you date single parents? Any tips and suggestions?
yes it is like that i think its because there is so much history there.
he has to learn to only talk about his daughter and nothing else if she texts messages to him and its not about his daughter then to ignore it and only reply to her when it about the child. she wont like it and get a bit angry but that's ok if he sticks to these rule things will get so much better don't let him get caught up with she said this she going to do that just ignore all of it
good luck
Yes. Always make careful decisions when involved with a single
parent. Let them know what they can expect from you. Don't
rush into it so fast. And never mistreat the child. You should
always know that things happen. So do not be so quick to judge.
For the most part, it can work out fine. If the two of you have
a mutual respect for one another. Good luck.............
Yes you always have to deal with the crazy exes. But there's no way I could date a man that thinks his only responsibility is to take care of the child financially. I don't want to deal with my ex, but I'm not going to give up my child.
Been there, done that, not worth the baggage. Let single parents date each other.
my answer....date only people who have no minor children living at home
First gay date! Need help! Any tips?
So, I'm new to this whole gay thing.. I've recently come to accept who I am and I'm feeling great about it (although it was pretty hard for a while, but I got over it).. Anyway, I've never been with a guy before and I'm talking to this awesome dude over the internet for the past week, and we want to meet each other. So, we've decided that the best place for us to meet is at my place. So, I invited him over and we are getting some beers and maybe order some pizza or something like that. So, it's our first date and I'm not really sure on how to do it. I don't want it to be sexual in any way.. It is meant for us to talk, get to know each other and maybe some kissing, lol.. However, I don't want it to be overly romantic.. Actually, I don't want it to be romantic at all.. Well, maybe a little.. So, I was thinking I'd buy a dvd and leave it on while we talk and have some drinks..
What do you guys think? Is pizza ok? What sort of music should I leave on? I want him to feel comfortable and I don't want to push things...First gay date! Need help! Any tips?
Hi. First off......I'm gay, so my comments come from experience.
Decide what you want from this date. If you are inviting him to your house, you are telling him indirectly that you want to have sex with him, and because, well I think as you said that you're inexperienced, maybe you do. If so......#1 buy condoms and some lubricant. Most guys dont walk around with those things in their pocket, esp lube. #2 when you guys 'get started', tell him that you are inexperienced, if he's a nice guy (a guy deserving of your attention) he'll respect your limits. Look, we're guys, and when we get started, we often times don't stop. So now youre thinking of just kissing him, but more may happen. Just be prepared, ok.
Now the internet thing.............be super careful. The web is cool. I actually met my bf on the internet (hi5). We've been together 1 1/2 years. We live together. But................Don't you think that maybe you should meet in public at a Starbucks or something? The worst is to have someone in your house that you don't like and can't get rid of. tell him that you have some errands to run and ';why dont we meet at X location? '; If you dont like him it'll be easier to ditch him in public, plus it's just safer.
Regarding the other stuff......pizza would be great if you guys actually do get to your place.
Music? try the radio. you have to maintain cds by putting on new ones. let him look at your cds and let him choose one if you dont wanna do the radio thing, then you won't be worried if he likes it or not.
a dvd might be cool. why dont you two MEET at the blockbuster, then you kill two birds with one stone?! you can meet in public and discuss what each likes and make a choice together. What a great way to break the ice and get more comfortable, and decide if you really want to be alone with him.
It's understandable that you are nervous, it's natural. Enjoy it, that's part of the magic! I'm 47 years old, and was still nervous when I met my boyfriend on our first date, and i wasn't ';inexperienced';. Those nervous moments are to be treasured.
Lastly, and once again. Be prepared, be safe, buy condoms for protection and lube for comfort. It doesnt matter if you're top or bottom, if you guys engage in intercourse, you'll need it. If you don't need it for this date, you'll need it eventually. Hope this last piece of advice isn't too crude for you.........just trying to help.
Good Luck and enjoy your new found liberation.
RobFirst gay date! Need help! Any tips?
Be yourself, be yourself.
Lol.
That reminded me of Just Friends.
Sorry.
Good Luck! : )
if you want it to be causal then yeah pizza is the way to go and watch a movie see where it goes from there
What do you guys think? Is pizza ok? What sort of music should I leave on? I want him to feel comfortable and I don't want to push things...First gay date! Need help! Any tips?
Hi. First off......I'm gay, so my comments come from experience.
Decide what you want from this date. If you are inviting him to your house, you are telling him indirectly that you want to have sex with him, and because, well I think as you said that you're inexperienced, maybe you do. If so......#1 buy condoms and some lubricant. Most guys dont walk around with those things in their pocket, esp lube. #2 when you guys 'get started', tell him that you are inexperienced, if he's a nice guy (a guy deserving of your attention) he'll respect your limits. Look, we're guys, and when we get started, we often times don't stop. So now youre thinking of just kissing him, but more may happen. Just be prepared, ok.
Now the internet thing.............be super careful. The web is cool. I actually met my bf on the internet (hi5). We've been together 1 1/2 years. We live together. But................Don't you think that maybe you should meet in public at a Starbucks or something? The worst is to have someone in your house that you don't like and can't get rid of. tell him that you have some errands to run and ';why dont we meet at X location? '; If you dont like him it'll be easier to ditch him in public, plus it's just safer.
Regarding the other stuff......pizza would be great if you guys actually do get to your place.
Music? try the radio. you have to maintain cds by putting on new ones. let him look at your cds and let him choose one if you dont wanna do the radio thing, then you won't be worried if he likes it or not.
a dvd might be cool. why dont you two MEET at the blockbuster, then you kill two birds with one stone?! you can meet in public and discuss what each likes and make a choice together. What a great way to break the ice and get more comfortable, and decide if you really want to be alone with him.
It's understandable that you are nervous, it's natural. Enjoy it, that's part of the magic! I'm 47 years old, and was still nervous when I met my boyfriend on our first date, and i wasn't ';inexperienced';. Those nervous moments are to be treasured.
Lastly, and once again. Be prepared, be safe, buy condoms for protection and lube for comfort. It doesnt matter if you're top or bottom, if you guys engage in intercourse, you'll need it. If you don't need it for this date, you'll need it eventually. Hope this last piece of advice isn't too crude for you.........just trying to help.
Good Luck and enjoy your new found liberation.
RobFirst gay date! Need help! Any tips?
Be yourself, be yourself.
Lol.
That reminded me of Just Friends.
Sorry.
Good Luck! : )
if you want it to be causal then yeah pizza is the way to go and watch a movie see where it goes from there
Should we date ?and need some tips?
there is this boy(16) who i know likes me(15) he has asked me out twice before but i kinda avoided the question,i like him but i try and tell my self tht i dont because i dont want to,I want to start to get to know him now cause we dont really no each otha tht well ,i think one of the reasons that i dont want to date him is because he has got hold of a girl fingered a girl and been tossed of by a girl which was his last girlfriend,I HAVENT DONE ANYTHING WITH A BOy,he isnt really into doing sexual things ,i feel i am ready to do sexual things if i was to date him and he wanted to. could you give me some tips on realationships and sexual realtions and flirting,,and do you think i should get to no him and date him?Should we date ?and need some tips?
if you like him just go for it, but never let him pressurise you into doing anything!Should we date ?and need some tips?
Hmm...so he's 16, a boy with raging hormones, who hardly knows you. He asks you out? What do you really think he wants?
But you know, he could really genuinely like you! That would be excellent but you really do need to get to know him better before accepting his offer. It'll be a bit weird if you don't know anything about your boyfriend...
But yeah, sorry, can't help you anymore but please take my answer into consideration!!
Hope it works out :D
if you like him just go for it, but never let him pressurise you into doing anything!Should we date ?and need some tips?
Hmm...so he's 16, a boy with raging hormones, who hardly knows you. He asks you out? What do you really think he wants?
But you know, he could really genuinely like you! That would be excellent but you really do need to get to know him better before accepting his offer. It'll be a bit weird if you don't know anything about your boyfriend...
But yeah, sorry, can't help you anymore but please take my answer into consideration!!
Hope it works out :D
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