Play it cool man. Just walk in like you own the place. Take her by the hand and lead her through the crowd. Take her to the concession stand and ask her if she wants to share a popcorn. Let her hold the popcorn. You'll understand why when you start reaching for it. Wait until the movie starts then slip your arm around her. Be careful not to elbow her in the eye when you do it! Keep your arm on her shoulder, but don't lay it there and let it be heavy on her. DO NOT try to touch anything else. If she puts her head on your shoulder you will know she wants you to kiss her. Let her make the first move after you have your arm around her. If she doesn't then just give her a kiss goodnight at the door and leave it at that. As far as talking goes. Keep it light. ASK her questions about her. What she likes? What ever. Oh one other thing you can do if you want is about half way through the movie at a time it is a little slow, lean over to her and whisper in her ear. Just say ';I'm really glad you are here with me tonight.'; Then go back to watching the movie. Remember mystery is geat. Leave a little mystery. You don't have to ask her to be your ';girlfriend'; Just say you had a good time and ask her if she wants to do it again sometime? That's my advice. Good luck. AND RELAX!First Date - Movies - Need tips FAST?
Bring her a single daisy and get a little dressed up, but still casual. Take her to a nice/humorous/romantic movie. What you SHOULD do is be yourself, if you act like someone else, she may not be interested in the pretend guy and loose your chance with her, or, she would like it, but you wouldn't have much in common, and you may learn that she's not right for you. Ask her questions about herself, get to know her better, throw in facts about you, but don't interrupt her! But don't ask constant questions, maybe once in a while, complement her, throw in facts about you, things about the movie, just be open. Don't be too quick to ask her. She may need time. If she liked it, get another date going, soon. Maybe on the 2-3 date. The first seems a little too soon and it may freak her out. Start out slow and easy. Make her feel comfortable around you first. If she makes some small moves, definitly the 2nd date. But do it when you BOTH feel ready. Too soon may seem pushy, too late she'll loose interest.
First and foremost, it is not sad that this is your first date. I was 16 when I first dated and looking back, I wish I waited another year.
Second, ask her how her summer is going. Is she someone from school? Ask if she has gone to get school clothes yet. Try and focus on her and what you think she may be interested in. And mention things that you are into and see if there is a connection there. You can also check out what is going to be playing in the near future and talk about that.
Third, don't try to be too touchy feely. It is probably the first time she has gone on a date and is probably just as nervous as you. Maybe instead of holding her hand or arm around the waist, you can ';accidentally'; brush your hand against hers or place it on her shoulder for a quick second and drop it as you walk or something.
Open doors for her. Be chivalrous. She will like that.
And above all just have fun!!!
Almost forgot. Before asking her to be your girlfriend, after the date, see ask if she wants to go out again sometime and set up a date and time. If all goes well after that one, tell her that you would be honored if she would accept you as her boyfriend. Good luck!!! I hope the best for you!!! HAVE FUN!!
let her pick the movie for sure. and even if you hate it, say something that was good about it. ask her if shes hungry if she wants you to get her any candy or popcorn or anything, just talk about things she interested it, get to know her and LISTEN well!!! but also telll her about yourself so youre both engaged equally. you should hold hands if shes being smily and flirty :) maybe 10 minutes into the movie, or even when it first goes dark after previews, i would ask her to be your girlfriend when you take her home or when you say goodbye, kiss on the cheek after :) unless she leans in to actually kiss you!
most important thing is to be relaxed and be comfortable :) good luck!!!
All kinds of little tricks you can play when you go to a movie. For instance, if you want to hold her hand but want it to feel natural, go up to the booth, buy the tickets. When they're handed to you, offer her your hand, grin, and say, ';Shall we?'; Assuming she likes you, you're in. ;-)
Asking her to be your girlfriend is something I'd advise waiting on until you know her a bit better... unless you already know her well. Then in that case, play it smooth. Don't jump on it immediately once the movie's finished. Wander around a little, make some small talk. Be yourself, and bring it up as it seems natural.
The goodnight kiss is a little shakier. You need to be pretty into the moment to have a good feel as to whether or not it's welcomed. Watch the eyes, son. Look for either shyness or deep focus. Anything else is probably a sign to hedge your bets. The perfect scenario for you is one in which she likes you enough that she kisses first. ;-)
Other tricks: if this is at a mall, take advantage of the environment. Be spontaneous. On one occasion, I was out with my girlfriend and she had a bottle of water. Her strong point is not walking and drinking from a bottle at the same time, so I went over to a random restaurant in the food court, stuck my head behind the counter, and stole a drink cup, much to her amusement. Little stuff like that. No biggie. ;-)
Best of luck, captain.
After definitely,
before looks too desperate,
get to know her,
ask her questions about herself,
and answer anything she asks you.
Offer to buy her drinks and snacks,
pay for the movies,
compliment her eg. say she looks pretty, or you like her outfit etc.
let her pick the film.
don't be too keen on her or she'll think you're only after one thing,
about 5 minutes into the film put your arm around her shoulders,
and if she leans in and rests her head on your chest or shoulder or whatever, kiss her on the forhead.
xo
I would not ask her to be a girlfriend on the first date. The best thing you can do is listen to her. Ask her about the classes or hobbies she likes. I would pay her way on the first date. Offer her something from the snack bar. Sharing popcorn is a real winner. Don't do the corny yawn and arm over her shoulder thing. Accidentally touch her and if she does not shy away then move in a little closer. Don't get grabby on the first date and the first kiss should be just a peck on the cheek or mouth at the end of the night. Don't scare her off.
I am stating this because of your age. If you were older I would give you a few other things to do but a young girl cannot deal with them yet. Be polite
you should see wall-e! its a cute date movie.
be really smooth when going for her hand.
buy popcorn so you can reach for her hand when she reaches for the popcorn. lame, i know, but im 18 and i think its really cute.
Do:
be nice.
be funny.
be occasionally cheesy.
make her talk about herself ( don't talk about yourself TOO much.)
Don't:
make a move on her unexpectedly.
burp.
talk too much about something she doesn't care about.
in other words, talk about something that she can relate to.
and if you really want to see if she likes you, you should ask her to be your girlfriend on the second date.
my first date was to the movies too ! :) i got asked out during the movie. very close to the end! it was cute.';) you should be veryy polite ! %26amp;%26amp; just talk about whateverrr before the movie. maybe summer plans, school, people that you both know, anything will turn into everything believe me. just make her feel comfortable. reach for her hand during the movie then ask her out after that. :) just don't be rude.
lol this is so cute. listen, there's no right or wrong, just go with the flow. be yourself. don't be too quiet, that makes it very uncomfortable. see how she acts first. if you want to kiss/hug/hold hands with her, just ask. if worst comes to worst, she'll say no. and life will go on! basically my best advice is be yourself. don't be nervous. [atleast dont act nervous] lol and some things you could talk about before the movie starts-- other movies you like, music, things like that.
i really hope i helped you!
at first....
TAKE IT SLOW..........
just kind of be her ';best friend'; act like it, and add alittle romance by laughing, sitting next to her, leaning, putting your hand over her shoulder.
also......
WEAR DEODERANT, ANTIPERSPIRANT. but make sure there is NO scent.
only ask her to be your girl friend after the movie... be casual about it, or else she will think ur desperate.
talk about how sweet she is......
how much you really like her,
and what a great couple you guys would make.
then ask her romantically to be your girlfriend.
if she says no, dont be over dramatic, and then ask her to just be close friends. itz not too bad, but after a while if you cant handle it, just ignore her gradually.
see a scary one, yous can snuggle haha.
erm...the arm yawn trick haha, unless you two are already an item then just kiss till the movie starts...or idk, talk about stuff you would normally talk about like cheese or something, but not cheese lol coz thats silly. im making no sense, blame it on the pregnancy brain, it makes me dumb at times.
yeah umm, if your gonna ask her to be your girlfriend, do it right after the movie starts,
start a conversation with her about anything, try to let her know that you like her since the movie starts and try to get close to her, hug her and kiss her, nd pop the question before your making out.
Ummm... Ok... Don't cop a feel, ok? The yawn to put the arm around may or may not fly, depends completely on the girl... Just don't push her... Seriously, just be yourself... Obviously she likes you, otherwise she woun't have agreed to go out with you... Oh, yea... And don't let long, awkward silences get to you. It happens to all of us. Just find something to say and don't over analize every little detail, cause then it won't be nearly as fun as you hoped it would... JUST HAVE FUN!
you should bring a single flower. so she feels spacial. give her a hug when you see her. dont try to hard so it wont seem akward. talk about other movies you have seen recently. and wait to see if the movie goes well and then decide if you want to ask her to be your g/f
just be yourself. don't think about what you will say before because trust me...then it will be pretty awkward.
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girls always love a gentleman. so yeahh. compliment her on what she is wearing or how she looks that is definately a point.
good luck.
don't forget about that goodnight kiss...if everything else has gone well. :) leave her with something she'll never forget.
Hancock- funny
Dark Knight - interesting
Step Brothers- funny.
any of those would work.
and u should wait until the movie ends to ask her out.
%26amp; before the movie u should talk about anything at all, it doesnt really matter.
such as herself, what she has done... etc.
you dont want to tell her before the movies, see how it goes, after the movie if you both had a fun time then ask her to be your girlfriend, dont push it though you may move to fast... so play it safe,
GOOD LUCK
ask lots of questions about her before the movie. later on in the movie, slowly touch her hand and if she doesnt pull away, hold her hand gently. if things go well, ask her to be your girlfriend after the movie. good luck!
wait till the end of the movie. and really there are no rules to dating in a movie theatre.. just dont go over the top and smother her, do what comes natural. good luck and have fun!
seriously no rules on asking a girl out, just be sincere. I think it would be better to ask her after...as for movies ';Wanted'; or more romantic and funny ';Mama Mia';...good luck!!! hope it works out!!!
ask her if you know she will say yes before the movie starts if you are not sure ask after the movie to nor make things awkard. When she does say yes KISS HER
take her to the restroom and make a movie of your own
toree said exactly what I was going to say. Be yourself!
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