Saturday, August 21, 2010

Any tips? on first dates?

i need help!


me and my boyfriend have been goin out for a while now


im 13 hes 13


i have no idea how to kiss


and anything else!!!!


HELP!!


any advice to make the kiss as best as it can be?


what to wear?


makeup?Any tips? on first dates?
About the kiss: just go for it. You don't have to complicate it or think too much about it, just go for it and it'll be over.





There's no such thing as expert kissing, or good and bad kissing - everyone has a different style and some people might not like what someone else likes, but you're probably not going to dive into a heavy make-out session on the first date, so you don't even have to worry about. A kiss is just a simple, painless process of pressing your lips together for a few seconds - it doesn't even have to be long. You can pull away as quickly as you'd like, and it'll be over with.





He might be too nervous to even kiss you on the first date, but if you want to prompt it, try giving him a peck on the cheek first.





Just keep it casual. Wear something comfortable and appropriate for the weather. You don't have to look bummy, but you don't have to look too done up. I suggest jeans and a nice top. Avoid glittery clothes that young teens like so much. The glitter just getts everywhere.





Wear whatever makes you feel good/confident/cute. You don't have to go shopping for a brand new outfit. There must be something cute and clean and wearable in your closet.





If you don't wear make-up regularly, forget it. Young girls look best without make-up and guys don't like for girls to cake it on. I'm sure you look pretty enough without it and your boyfriend likes your face the way it is.





But since you want to look just right for your first date, How about using cherry chapstick or something similar to it? (sold cheap at Rite Aid or any pharmacy) It makes your lips pinker than usual, but not too red. If your lips are a bit dry, use vaseline the night before. Imo, lip gloss and vaseline can get pretty messy whilst kissing ;-)





Subtle things can sometimes get more attention than flashy things. (ie, what boy doesn't love for a girls hair to smell sweet? They can't see your shampoo, they can only smell it!)





Hair doesn't have to be styled in a way that looks like you're getting ready for prom or a wedding. It only needs to look freshly washed, recently combed and smell really good. If the shampoo and conditioner you're using doesn't have a strong scent, dabbing a tiny bit of any herbel essences shampoo (or any shampoo that smells good) can do the trick. You can still use your regular shampoo and conditioner and mix a bit of that in. Unless, your own shampoo already smells really good, then there's no need to do it.





Smelling good works wonders. Skip the perfume, just trust good soap.





Finally, just relax and have fun. You know this guy, so it should be okay. And remember, he's probably going to be just as nervous as you are. Good luck and have fun!Any tips? on first dates?
It will come very naturally if its with the right person. Tip: Don't put on too much lip gloss or lip stick. The lip gloss is too slippery and lipstick well thats just just for like old people. lol
Kiss his lips and then while kissing pinch his behind and say ';Keep it real';
Just go for it, it comes naturally beleive me!! =)

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