Tuesday, August 24, 2010

Tips/advice on dinner dates?

when you go out to dinner as a dinner date with a guy i find it really aquard because i am so shy and i dont know what to say so i start to feel my face go all red and the guy really notices it and asks me why am going so red. does anyone have any advice or tips that will help me. i dont know what ti say? i hope someone can help! THANKS :)Tips/advice on dinner dates?
As a guy, I'm sure that he's just as nervous as you to go on the date. I know there is the old cliche just be yourself but I think you have to go to the root of the problem. What is the big deal? What is making you so nervous?





If someone is asking you out on dates, I'm sure you're attractive (as most guys are quite shallow). Everybody has one thing that they are good at or something they are proud of, talk about that. If that doesn't work bring the conversation to him. Where did you grow up? Where did you go to school? What's your favorite childhood memory are all great conversation starters.





If worse comes to worse, use the old public speaking trick. Imagine him in his underwear. Tightie Whities. Not boxers. Good Luck and most of all Have FUN!Tips/advice on dinner dates?
Ask questions than don't have a yes/no answer. It forces them to talk openly with you.





Take keywords from their answers (or what they say in general) and expand on that. Or comment on the restaurant/cafe and make them respond about that, then expand on that.





Things like jobs, travel, films/music are good. Things like religion and politics are bad.
stop worrying about him, or about what he is thinking. Try to learn about him. Ask questions, listen. Be yourself. The less you try to impress, the more you are likely to be liked (deep, I know!) When you do talk about yourself, talk about your likes and dislikes, movies, family, friends, etc. But mostly, just keep the conversation light and ask questions. Good luck!

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