Tips for first date with another boy?

someone suggested that i post this in the gay/lesbian section, so i will. ok, so here's the short story: we met online, hes 16 im 17. he's from my hometown, but im away for college. we've been chatting for about two weeks. i'm going home this weekend (to my hometown) and we agreed to get together for a 'date'. now, we're going to watch a movie and then catch dinner. money is not really an issue, so that's ok. now, for my question: we're both kinda nervous about this whole thing, so i wanted to see if any one had any tips about staying calm and moving the date forward (without being oppressive, duh)? second, any tips of how to flirt while watching the movie and while at dinner? although im still not out, im perfectly fine with ';looking gay in front of ppl,'; so that wont be a problem either.


so, in retrospect, i need help in two sections:


1) how to stay calm? and


2) how to flirt?


i don't mean for this date to get too serious, i just want it to lead to other good times, thanks.Tips for first date with another boy?
As a small addition to the above excellent ideas, remember that he is nervous too, so just break the ice, give him a hug when you meet, then look him in the eyes and say, ';You know, I have really loved chatting with you the last couple weeks and I'm so glad to see you. To be truthful, I'm also kinda nervous. I hope you don't mind.';





Of course this will give him the opportunity to say that of course he does not mind, and in fact he is feeling a bit nervous too.





Then say, ';Well good, we're both nervous but we both like each other. You wanna walk and talk a bit, and get dinner?';





Make sure you walk together some; that uses nervous energy and calms the spirit.





You'll both be great, and you will be really glad that -- not only did you survive and hold up well -- but you actually enjoyed it.





By the way, have you already talked on the phone yet? If not, PLEASE do so tonight or tomorrow. That will help break the ice and will make conversation seem easier.Tips for first date with another boy?
Well o kay first just breathe relax and stay calm.You're both nervous so its no big deal.Flirting isn't as hard as people think just compliment him on the occasions you can say like ';Nice eyes'; or something along those terms.Just don't overdue it because then you'll flatter him .Try to just talk to him and get to know him better. Keep the conversation going and trigger his interest.



To calm yourself just tell yourself that he is just as nervous as you and he isn't going to laugh at you if you mess up etc.


Flirting... You can flirt with him during the movie by doing little things like resting your head on his shoulder touching his hand.





Hope your date goes great!
Watch a scary movie. Plenty of reason to hold him/ flirt there.
lots of good answers here! in addition, i would slip into the conversation that you were really nervous to meet him cause he seemed so nice online and you didnt want to mess up by saying something stupid. chances are that he feels the same (nervous, and that he likes you), and you can both have a little laugh and then relax some. things will go smoother after that.





you know what ? .......im 46 (yikes) and i still get nervous about first dates. its natural. but you know what else? the nervousness is more than half the fun! it's like......What's gonna happen, what's gonna happen? If it weren't for that, how boring life would be!





good luck, have fun, sit in the back of the theater and sit next to him at dinner, not across from him.
Switch the order of things.





Do the dinner first, so you guys can talk face-to-face and get to know each other better. Flirting can be as simple as compliments, prolonged eye contact, or touching his arm.





Example: He says something witty. You laugh and say ';Oh you are so funny!'; as you look into his eyes, smile and touch his arm.





Then do the movie. By that point, you will have gotten a lot of flirting in during dinner and making a move during the movie won't be so awkward.
Well just be yourself. Now I know that sounds terribly cliche. But seriously. Just be yourself, and if you feel as though you are sexually attracted or just attracted to his personality then go for it! Make a couple innuendos. Be cheeky and cute. Why not? Your young, your allowed to stay young and act young! Enjoy it! Flirting can be as simple as looking at someone and conveying how you feel with your eyes, or just holding hands. It all depends on the individual!





It will be fun! Relax and just enjoy yourself. Your on a date with him not the entire world. Just focus on him and be spontaneous! If you see a hiking trail on the way to the theatre, suggest a walk afterwards! That's great privacy for some one on one if its the public that makes you nervous?
just be yourself there is no difference in being straight or being gay in my eyes, all dates are the same as in you dont have a clue what to do!!!!!!!!!! im female 24 and straight and have a boyfriend of 7 years now and 2 kids with him. But as for flirting i suggest if your really intersted to maybe be obliging as to take his coat or maybe he will do that, you can also let him know your interested in flirting by seeming completely comfortable and make a few jokes even if its silly ones just to break the ice!!. as for staying calm i reckon he is going to be as nervous as you are and just let him know that you are and get it out of the way and im sure you will both relax and be able to have a GREAT FIRST DATE!!!!!!!!! Awwwwwww i wish i was your age again, its such a thrill meeting and dating so my advice is just enjoy it and if it doesnt work out the way you hoped it would just put it down as experience. I wish you all the best in your date and im sure you will get on great.xxxx

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