Tips For First Date?????

I have a date with this girl who I've liked for a while coming up in the next few days and i am really nervous about it, because its the first date with a girl that i'm completely crazy for, in summary, she is the girl of my dreams.





We are going to go skating, and I'm just interested, how should I act on the date with-out seeming too touchy or ';creepy.'; I really don't wanna mess things up, I really like her, I just need tips on how I should act while i'm on the ice with her. I know that I should be myself and all of that stuff, I mean what are some things that I can do, flirting wise, to really show her how much i want to start a relationship with her. Any tips? We are gonna be skating, so i think that provides a good basis for flirting...





Also, should I get her a gift, or will that be a bit much for the first date?Tips For First Date?????
A couple of things to avoid - treating her like a friend or buddy (it is a date after all) - Being too distant, playing it cool and being unresponsive. So, in your situation if she happens to fall while on the ice don't laugh or think it's funny as you would if it were a buddy of yours, instead be courteous and help her up. That would be a great opportunity to show a little physical affection and see how she responds. Try not to over-analyze or plan it out ahead of time as you will end up seeming calculated. If you want to prepare think of some topics that would be interesting to discuss in advance.





As for gifts - how about treating her to gourmet hot cocoa or capachino after wards?Tips For First Date?????
IF you get her a gift make it something small. Just act like her best friend and make her laugh.
do not get her a gift! i repeat! do not get her a gift! it will seem like u r bribing her.
Don't get her a gift get her something like a single red rose, and on the date don't make it too serious, have fun! (act more like a friend but in a little bit of a flirtatious way) Hold her hand and make non-corny jokes and stuff, if it's a bad joke, and she still laughs it means she does really like you, unless she's laughing to be polite, trust me you'll know which is which. Does the rink (if ur going 2 1) have a little place to eat buy her a hot chocolate or something, if she insists on paying, only let her pay half, but don't let her pay right away say no like twice first. Good luck, and remember have fun!
A gift is unnecessary, but you should buy her a drink or two and a snack. Exercise is hungry and thirsty work. Bonus points if you suggest it just before she was about to :) Like the other chap said, you don't need to flirt, just act like her best friend. Think of a plan for next time, in case you decide to ask her out again.
why a gift? u might comes off as trying to buy her acceptance. how would u feel if she's bringing u a gift? a bit much huh? don't plan anything, just go with the flow.. ice skating is good but it would limit the conversation between you and her. if possible try to have some time alone, so u could learn more about eachother.
on the first date, you create a cheat sheet of things to talk about. Choose 5 topics that any girl would be very interested in. Then practice them over and over again. You would be surprise how entertaining your conversation would be if you let it flow around those 5 topics one after another. But only bring in the topics if you really don't know what to say. If you know what to say, just say it. Otehrwise, your 5 topics will come into play if you are lost for words. This way, you won't feel nervous at all. In brief, you must:





1. Speak at an easygoing and slow pace. Try to do most of the talking, or else the girl will think you are boring


2. Try not to talk too much. Your talking should come in the form of punch lines, quick sentences, sentences that end as open questions meant to get her to answer (example: ...and I guess you are as well right?...). Above all, it must be interesting, even bordering on controversial. Example: hey I really need to ask you this, would you ever let your boyfriend hold another girls hand?


3. Be extremely enthusiastic. Act like you have been together for a long time. Girls will itnerpret that as an isntant connection.


4. Cut her off at mid sentence when she is talking half of the time once you hear her say something that gives you a chance to elaborate so that she feels as though the conversation is very fast paced


5. Be flirtatious. This isn't hard to do. All of us always have naughty things in our head we want to say (as long as we are born with sexual desires) so just allow them to be said as long as thy are not excessive


6. Be seductive. When she speaks, look into her right eye and imagine as though she is falling into your spell. Momentarily blink to avoid being ';too deep';.


7. Sit back and do not lean forward. Your face should always have a lot of gestures which respond to the things she says or else she will think you are staring at her


8. Tease her. There will be thousands of funny things about her you will notice in an hour. Do not be shy to tell her what they are





Your date will be a success if you follow all 8 things. Enjoy!
just get some flowers
Here are some quick tips





Always be yourself and relax have a good time if she thinks you are really nervous or anxious it will turn her off big time





Buy her a gift that is instant bonus points and a plus for you


Nothing too lavish but something simple like a rose and candy or a teddy bear something like that. We like gifts!





Do not try to be touchy, feely none of that it is never appropriate on a first date to do anything more than hold hands or perhaps hug at the most (especially if you are under 16)





Any physical interaction is something that you must be made aware of is alright with the girl, trust me you will know by her body language what is okay and what is not okay. You can ask her if she needs help when skating it gets slippery!





Always open the door, pull out the chairs, wait for her to finish whatever like putting on her skates and volunteer to help her every chance you get.





Tell her she looks good but not every 2 seconds. Mention it twice perhaps so that she is aware you are attracted.





I think this is enough for you, make her comfortable and always be a gentleman willing to help her.





Btw, Treat everyone else nice also because if you are nice to her but rude to the workers at the skating rink it will make you seem fake, so avoid that at all costs.





If you find yourself overwhelmed just excuse yourself but dont do this more than twice--take a breather in the restroom to get it together.





The best tip be yourself and have fun, laugh joke and get to know your date ask her what interests her and about her future goals and even her past if it interests you. Good luck!
You really should just act normal. You should probably try holding off the gifts until the second or third date, so you can know what to get her aka her likes and dislikes. Don't try rushing a kiss, it may just come or it may not. Pay attention to her body language or her tone of voice. If she seems to get a little stiff when you do something, she may feel uncomfortable. So you should really be yourself, have fun, and try to make her feel like she can trust you and be safe with you.
u shouldnt het her a gift..or else she'll think u're too rushing.. just give her small treats..it's just as an opener..it's ur first date right..? so, dont make things cmplicated.





just relax n dont think 2 hard abt how to impress her..be casual n EASY-GOING.. gud lak 'tho!! =)
givee her a cupcake in a box! those are soo cute ive tried that