Good advice/tips for a first date for the girl...?

So I'm going on my first date on friday night and i'm going with this guy i REALLY like..


we are going to this really nice restaurant and then we are walking around this shopping center(which is lighted up really pretty =) )





Any tips and/or advice?





I'm kinda nervous =/





thanks!Good advice/tips for a first date for the girl...?
Yes-





1. Be yourself (be the person he asked out, not your idea of what you think he wants).





2. Be sure to ask questions about HIS life (we girls tend to gab about ourselves too much).





3. Do not speak badly about anyone, even if he does. If he hears you bad-mouthing other people, I promise you he will be worried about what you are going to say to others about him and your date.





3. Remember-- ';women flirt, men pursue';. Don't be overly-available. Just send him hints. Let him make the first move.





4. Leave him wanting more. Don't give too much of anything away. Make him need to ask you out again to learn more about you, get farther physically, everything.





5. Be cool, have fun,and RELAX!!!! I hope you have a great time. Let us know how it goes.





Good advice/tips for a first date for the girl...?
No matter how old you are, it is your first date, so don't do anything more than maybe hold hands when your walking around. One kiss on the cheek when you part ways.


Arm around you? That's for boyfriend/girlfriend, which you are not.


More than a little kiss? Same thing.


If he's ';the one';, you want to take things really slow. If he is not, just think how your next boyfriend will feel about what you did with your first one.


Also, if someone you look up to (Mum, Dad, aunty, whoever) saw you, would you be happy with what they saw?


Think beforehand what you will allow and what not, and then stand your ground. If this is indeed a nice guy and worth the trouble, he will respect you for having standards and morals.


You're only going out to get to know each other, and that involves a lot of talking, not a lot of touching!


Hope you'll have FUN!
Wear comfortable clothes, especially shoes. Don't overdo the make up or perfume. Try and just be yourself. Take a little money in case dinner costs more than he thought. Take a cell in case of emergency.


When you get nervous, ask him about himself. Guys can usually talk about themselves and the things they like (sports, music, etc.) all night long. If he wants to hold hands while you walk, that's nice. If he wants to kiss you, not so nice. Invite him in to meet your parents before you go. Parents always make a guy behave and sometimes say dorky things. That gives you something to laugh about later.


Most important, treat him like you would want him to treat you. Like a friend.
Talk about yourself and let him get to know you, but ask him a lot of questions about him.


It sounds a bit weird, but everyone likes to talk about themselves, whether they admit it or not.


Especially with someone they like.


Just don't sound like you're interrogating him, you know?


Don't be afraid to make eye contact, I promise it won't kill you! =]


Try not to be too nervous, just breathe.


Don't ramble in awkward silences, just try to fill the space (this was always the hard one for me) so that it's a comfortable conversation.


Have fun!!
Well since your going to a restaurant, then that'll be the perfect time to get know each other really well. Be yourself, and like come out just a lil bit more than u usually do. answer all of him question as best you can [if he has any] have fun, smile and laugh a little!





ways to be a good listener:


1. lean forward just a bit


2. have good eye contact


3. occasional nods (not too many, just some to show ur payin attention)





And like someone said, you could probably hold hands in the shopping center, talk some more, and again, just be yourself! that would have to be one of the most important things!





Have fun and Good luck!
Make sure you smell good. (Chanel Mademoiselle Perfume is awesome!)Allow him or request that he get the door for you. If you ride with him, stay seated in the car and allow him to come and open your door. Also keep your lip gloss handy. Avoid chewing gum. Make sure you go somewhere nice. Remember to say please and thank you! He will respect you more than any other girl he's ever dated! guaranteed! I'm excited for you! Let us know what happens asap! Hope you found me helpful! Relationship Guru!



Remember not to rush things - so no heavy petting or groping. Take things slow and maybe hold hands when walking around the shopping centre.





Don't make a big deal out of it and just think of it as ';hanging with this guy'; so that you don't get so nervous
Relax, relax, relax.... don't try to impress him, just chill out and be yourself. ';Be yourself'; means to just say what comes to mind and not give a crap whether it sounds stupid, whether he'll think you're funny, etc. Just don't give a crap and it'll go fine.
Take it slow and be yourself!





Act like you're hanging out with a friend--just have fun! Be cute and maybe hold hands or lean on him, but don't overdo it. You guys have a lot of time hopefully to get to know each other! :]
kkkk....first u have 2 make sure he thinks/knows that u enjoys him putting his arm around, him pecking u on the cheek. Then, akways act like a lady. napkin on lap, use fork, and for th good night kiss...add tongue
well!! u should be nervous and please do show your nervous...most guys like girl like that... and when you with your date be nature..acting like you not easy to get.. most guy get really interested in that.. and dont show that you really into him
just be cool we dont like it when you girls are all trying so hard to be absolutely perfect but dont act like a jerk either but thats pretty obvious but you look like a pretty girl so i dont think you will have a problem
Like she said. be yourself. and take it slow talk and get into a comfortable mood. and jokes are always good!
be yourself